Stage two may be "Proceeding Without an Attorney" outside of probate court....a second front

Probate court is ongoing now...but I read that I can actually file something else by myself against
Patricia Dillon L. Esq partner in F. B. and T.
http://www.wiwd.uscourts.gov/proceeding-without-attorney
From above link relative to Wisconsin but likely a good reference for Ohio;
"Proceeding Without an Attorney

If you are proceeding in a civil action in federal court, but do not have an attorney to represent you, you may represent yourself. This is called "proceeding pro se" which is a Latin term meaning "for yourself." You will then be called a "pro se litigant." You need not worry if you have had little or no experience with the courts before. You are, however, expected to follow and abide by the rules that govern the practice of law in the federal court. Pro se litigants should be familiar with the Federal Rules of Civil Procedure (link is external) and the Local Rules of this Court.
A civil case, which is the only type of case individuals can commence in federal court, is different from a criminal case, which can only be commenced by government officials. In a civil case, you do not have a constitutional right to appointed counsel. Therefore, if you proceed with a civil case pro se, you should be prepared to pursue it to completion on your own."

The benefit of my playing "David" (myself) against "GOLIATH" is free publicity...and publicity is like the spotlight chasing the cock roaches back under the garbage. Self dealing and similar only happens when the perpetrator feels UNSEEN, free and safe to self deal and plunder and help her special interests IMO.